A while back, I came across a list of things
American tourists are guilty of doing in foreign countries. Things that we
obviously don't give a second thought. Some are merely odd and others are
considered offensive.
Expecting American Food To Be Everywhere
When traveling in a foreign country, if you're
looking for McDonalds or Starbucks, you won't be disappointed since these
chains and many other familiar ones are readily available worldwide. But that
doesn't mean you can order your favorite food item. These franchises succeed in
foreign countries by accommodating local tastes and customs.
In some Middle Eastern and Asian countries, feet
are treated as the filthiest part of the body. Americans don't view toes this
way, so our lack of foot concern comes off as strange and impolite. In many
countries, you're expected to take off your shoes before entering a room and
don't point your feet in anyone's direction. In other countries, showing the
bottom of your feet is considered very rude.
Dressing Inappropriately
A surefire way to stand out as different when
traveling in a foreign country is to dress like an American. Shorts, skirts,
and short-sleeved shirts might seem like smart choices, especially if you're
visiting a place that's hot all year or traveling in summer. Depending on where
you go, your exposed skin could be offensive. Not only do these fashion errors
make us stand out, they can mark us as tourist targets for scammers and
criminals.
Wasting Food And Water
When Americans decided that bigger was better (as
they say at McDonalds, do you want that super-sized?), we also began
wasting resource at a dangerous rate. All-you-can-eat buffets, huge food
portions, and needlessly leaving water running while brushing our teeth or
washing our hands makes us one of the most wasteful countries in the world.
Places like France have passed laws making food waste for supermarkets illegal,
encouraging businesses to donate it to charity. When in a foreign country,
conserve like a local.
Expecting Rush Service
Expecting quick service while in a foreign country
is the quickest way to get a double glance from the locals. In the U.S., our
tipping culture encourages fast service. In most countries, tradition requires
little or no tip. As soon as you complain that you've been waiting too long,
don't be surprised if you are ignored completely. [On one of my trips to
London, we sat in the lobby of the hotel for three hours with our luggage
because nobody could find a key for our room. The hotel manager apologized by
saying, "I know things happen quickly in the States…" After another
hour, I finally insisted that someone use a passkey and let us in the room so
we could deposit our luggage. It was the next day before they could produce a
key for us. The hotel had actual keys rather than the electronic key cards that
the registration clerk swipes and assigns to a specific room when you check
in.]
Wearing Fanny Packs
If you don't like the idea of wearing a money belt
because you think it's too touristy, then just wait until you decide on a fanny
pack in another country. They are far out of fashion's reach and visually mark
you as an easy target.
Putting Ice In Everything
Ice is an automatic part of American life. We want
it in every cold drink. We fill ice chests with it to go to the beach or camping.
We even changed the design of freezers to produce more ice quicker. If you
weren't born in the U.S., you probably don't understand our fascination with
ice. If you're from the U.S. and are traveling in a foreign country, back off
of the ice requests.
Giving Rude Hand Gestures
Americans tend to communicate with our hands, some
more than others. Even automatic things like offering a hand shake when meeting
someone or giving a thumbs up or an ok sign can be misinterpreted when done in
a foreign country. And in China, pointing is very rude.
Using Your Left Hand
Middle Eastern, Indian, Asian, and African
countries all have one thing in common—they expect food to be eaten with the
right hand only. Common practice for those of us who are right-handed. But for
you left-handers, they consider the left hand unclean.
Not learning Local Phrases
In case those born in the U.S. don't realize it,
English is one of the most difficult languages to learn. That's why it's
particularly hypocritical when we travel in foreign countries that we expect
the locals to know at least a few English phrases. Showing cultural respect can
be as simple as memorizing a greeting and a couple of basic questions.
Americans expect everyone coming to our country to speak English. On the other
hand, when we travel to foreign countries, we expect them to accommodate us by
speaking English.
Showing Bad Table Manners
Just because we use knives, forks, and spoons
doesn't mean other countries do, too. It's ok to use utensils if available, but
you should know what is and isn't considered rude at the dinner table. Bad
manners—eating anything with your hands in Chile, using a fork to shovel food
in your mouth in Korea, putting used chopsticks on your empty plate when you've
finished eating in Japan.
Requesting Menu Changes
In the U.S., no one would give a second though if
someone requested more salt or pepper in a restaurant, in fact, salt and pepper
shakers are common as part of the table setting. In Europe, this might insult
the chef since it changes the way he prepared the food. And don't ask for a
'doggy bag' for your leftovers. They might think you intend to feed their food to
your dog rather than finishing your meal in the restaurant.
Smiling At Strangers
Maybe we're wanting to show off our expensive
dental work or just want to be polite. Whatever the reason, Americans smile too
much, especially at strangers when we make eye contact. In some foreign
countries, that could get you a nasty look in return.
Talking Too Loudly
The U.S. is an expressive culture. Freedom in
American means you can usually be as loud as you want, mostly wherever you
want. But when U.S. citizens travel to foreign countries, we attract attention
by raising the volume of our voices a tad higher than everyone else in the
room. Make sure you aren't the annoying tourist who won't pipe down.
And finally, there's…
Writing Dates Backward
Unlike many places in the world, we don't use
metric measurements, our spelling system makes no sense to anyone else (even in
the U.K. where English began), and our date format is out of order. While most
countries use the DD/MM/YYYY format, we've stepped outside the box since July
4, 1776. We write the numerical date as MM/DD/YYYY. When you travel, be aware
that 07/04/2019 is April 7, 2019, and not the 4th of July.
6 comments:
Interesting. I spoke French when my family traveled to Paris and the locals were very impressed and helpful when they realized I was American.
I knew all of these things, and might be guilty of one or two. I try to dress appropriately when I travel. And respect the country I'm in. I have seen Americans dressed like slobs, cut-offs and flip flops. So embarrassing.
These are interesting. Thank you for posting.
Jennifer: I think speaking the local language, or at least making a sincere attempt at it, goes a long way in making friends in a foreign country--especially being American. We do have a reputation for being rude tourists.
Thanks for your comment.
Diane: When doing foreign travel, it's difficult to keep every do and don't in mind for being a good guest in their country. But, as you said, there's no excuse for being totally offensive and embarrassing by ignoring local customs and simple courtesy. Dressing and behaving totally inappropriate also makes us stand out as an easy mark for pickpockets and thieves.
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Historical: I'm glad you enjoyed my blog post.
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